Writing the best thank you message notes this Christmas 2021

December 07, 2021 3 min read

8 quick tips for writing the best thank you messages

Writing thank you messages in a card or note can be arduous and the longer you leave it, often the harder it becomes to start. Christmas thank you messages tend to be more difficult to start, as they all come at once - but remember you're expressing your appreciation for a gift or kind act so this will really be appreciated by the recipient! This is also a great guide for how to say thank you for an unexpected gift!

So to help you with writing the best thank you notes for friends and family, and to take the pain away from the experience here is a quick guide to the perfect thank you message note for your friends and family AND how best to write it!

8 quick tips for writing the best Christmas thank you messages

Share this thank you Image On Your Site
You're welcome to share the above image on your site, however, please credit us / link back to this original piece as a reference if you do so!


1) The structure of a thank you message:

Here’s the structure of a typical thank you message for you to follow:

 

a) The salutation / greeting and name > this can be formal / informal E.g Hi, Dear, first name or name and title, Paul, Mr Smith, etc.

b) Thank you message > Get straight to thanking them ‘Thank you for the… gift / thing they did!

c) Note saying why it was appreciated > it was useful, appreciated, always wanted one, helped so much…

d) Optional personal note > Was great to see you at / pleasantries

e) Sign off > Love, kind regards, Yours sincerely, faithfully, Warm wishes

 

2) Decide on your writing style.

Do you want to be formal (like you’re writing to your boss or acquaintance)  or informal as you are with friends?

  Formal  > Informal  > Highly Informal
           
Greeting Dear Mr > Dear Paul / Hi > Hi Paul / Darling Paul  / Nickname
           
Sign off Yours Sincerely > Kind regards > Love / lots of love / xxx
           
  Strangers > Acquaintances > Close friends
  Customers   Friends,   Wife, husband, fiance(e),
  Acquaintances   Friendly colleagues   girlfriend, boyfriend,
      Friendly customers    

3) Better words than ‘nice’ or ‘great’!

Replace weak words like ‘nice’ and ‘great’ with stronger words to show your proper appreciation for the gift or service:

Here’s a suggested word list:

Fantastic, Cool, Awesome, excellent, genius, decadent, exciting, luxurious, brilliant, fabulous, lovely, enchanting, adorable, elegant, marvelous, splendid, overwhelming, staggering, wonderful, lush, enchanting, ingenious, welcome, stunning, handsome, dazzling, incredible, spectacular, unexpected, amazing, sweet, tasteful, thoughtful, touching, kindhearted, moving

 

4) Other words for saying thank you

Here are a list of other things you can say with your thank you to let them know what you feel about the gift!

appreciate the

indebted

forever grateful

so grateful for the

Delighted

Much obliged

obliged for the

truly appreciate the

really enjoyed the

want to acknowledge your generosity

value the

thankful for the

want to express my gratitude for

want to express my appreciation for

Appreciative

Heartfelt thanks

tickled pink with

profoundly grateful

Overjoyed

Overwhelmed

sincere

sincerely

sincerest

flattered

 

5) How old / tech savvy is the person you’re sending thanks to?

Some people may prefer or expect cards rather than emails, text, or Facebook messages!

 

6) What impression are you trying to make?

Judge your response! For example, sending a thank you for an expensive or thoughtful gift by email or text isn’t great!

 

7) Choose how to send thanks

Depending upon how close you are to someone, how big a deal the gift is and what’s an appropriate response.

 

8) Do it now!

One of the best tips and the simplest! Send your thanks right away for the biggest impact; plus it’s easier to write and clears your mind!

 

You may also be interested in:

If you liked this blog, you may also be interested in our blogs on christmas card messages and Christmas quotes.

Dipa Shah
Dipa Shah


Leave a comment

Comments will be approved before showing up.


Also in News

Inspirational Mother's Day quotes: "God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers'
70+ Perfect Mother’s Day Mum Quotes For Cards From Daughter, Son, For Wife, New Mums, UK

March 01, 2022 8 min read

Read our 70+ best and inspirational heart-warming Mothers Day Card quotes. Find the perfect quote to big up and celebrate your mum, wife, a new mum, grandmother, aunt, step mum, friend or that woman who’s been like a mum to you.
Wish a special woman a Happy Mothers Day with our memorable short quotes.
Mother's Day flowering cherry Pop up card.
When is Mother's Day 2022?

March 01, 2022 8 min read

With Mother's Day being celebrated all over the world, the big question is, When is Mother's Day in the UK and all around the world in 2022? Also learn why different countries have different celebration dates and how they celebrate too!
Harry Potter Valentines Day cards, gift and messages for him and her
Harry Potter Valentines Day cards, gift and messages for him and her

February 09, 2022 5 min read